What is Whiteness and why does the contemporary language around it mask it’s grotesque nature and hide HOW it is impacting those who are racialized as white?
How does this language that portrays inheritors of whiteness as immune from its predator nature allow the ancestral and contemporary trauma inflicted on those racialized as white to go unnoticed?
And how does this maladaptation to this generation perpetuate self harm, silence, and inability to be in right relationship with Black Folx and communities of color?
I’ve been sitting with something for a long time, and I finally decided to stop watching.
Towards the end of this episode, I speak is about the white women in spiritual coaching who are making $20K, $30K, $50K a month building practices rooted in ancestral technologies that don’t belong to them by lineage — and what it actually costs the Black and Brown women in their containers.
I’m also announcing something I’ve been building: Composting Whiteness, a yearlong mentorship for white women coaches ready to do the real work of repair and right relationship with the communities they serve.
Inaugural council begins September 2026. Enrollment is limited and by application only.
Apply here: forms.gle/QY4pmwP5dAjVnwWc7
Questions: candice@candicedmeza.com




